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When we were children, we probably felt tremendous joy by being allowed to play alone or with friends, but when we grow up it seems we lose touch with our playful side. Sometimes we need a reminder that we do not need to take ourselves so seriously. Granted, some sex play involves enacting seriousness, bitchiness and more! Often, however, play might resort to teasing, slow sex, or to playing sex games. We don’t necessarily need to act super kinky or to role-play eccentric fantasies to be playful and sexy. There are dozens of ways of adding fun to our sex lives.

Slow sex is not only a category of x-rated movies, it is also a line of products of one of our favourite sex cosmetics brands, and, truly, a way to take full advantage of sexy times. Time is key. The more time you spend enhancing feeling, touching, licking, and so on, with no pressure or limits, the more you might enjoy sex. Slow sex reminds us that there is no main event in sex. Pleasure, in whichever shape or form, is the main event. Perhaps the most important lesson from tantric sex.

There is a long list of sex games you can play. “Would you rather?” comes to mind, but there are really a lot of games you can play – and you can always create new ones. You can tease a partner asking them to guess what you are wearing (or not wearing), reminding them of a particularly steamy sex session, or provoking them with pictures in dressing rooms – the list is endless. There are plenty of games if you are a solo player too. You can do your own sex bucket list, put yourself through some edging, or just have fun answering questions using the new Quycky app! (Playstore) (Apple Store)

Role-play is not but an adult version of pretend play. Kinky players have known this for years… We have talked about the sexual satisfaction BDSM players experience from performing Dom and Sub roles before. There is an array of accessories you can use to enhance your kinky sex thrill, but imagination and talk is really what gets you there.

Some devices can also get you there, such as dildos, plugs, vibrators, beads, rings – otherwise known as sextoys. There is one reason why sextoys are called toys and that’s because they are a lot of fun to play with.